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The Question My Clients Kept Asking

by Joanna Telacka
Jul 24, 2026

When I first started teaching Pilates, I noticed a pattern.
Nearly every client would ask me the same question:
"What is this exercise for?"
If we were doing Single Leg Circles, they wanted to know if it was strengthening their legs.
If we were doing Arm Circles on the Reformer, they wanted to know if it would strengthen their arms.
My answer was almost always the same.
I explained that every Pilates exercise is really a whole-body exercise. The goal isn't simply to strengthen one muscle, but to teach the entire body to work together more efficiently.
To be honest, that explanation rarely satisfied anyone. 🙂
People wanted something more concrete.
So I learned that if I simply named a muscle, everyone relaxed.
Sometimes I still do.
If someone is trying to perform Frog primarily with their quadriceps, I might smile and say, "This one is for buns of steel."
Almost instantly, I see their attention shift.
Not because that's the complete purpose of the exercise, it isn't, but because that simple answer gives them something familiar to relate to. 
Over the years, I realized something important.
My clients weren't really asking an anatomy question.
They were asking,
"Why am I doing this?"
Once they felt they understood the purpose of the exercise, they stopped searching for answers and became available to learn.
Ironically, that's when the real teaching began.
After nearly three decades and thousands of hours spent watching people move, I realized something else as well.
Individual muscles matter of course, but recognizing movement patterns leads to better results:
Where does the movement begin?
What moves first?
What stabilizes before something else moves?
What is the body compensating for because of limitations in strength, mobility, or coordination?
Why is one area always working harder than the other?
Two people can perform exactly the same exercise and require completely different guidance.
Although the exercise doesn't change, every person is different - body and mind.  
That's why to me, teaching Pilates is about much more than explaining anatomy or memorizing cues.
It's about helping each person develop the awareness to recognize inefficient movement patterns, understand why they are happening, and gradually replace them with more efficient ones.
The surprising part is that these lessons don't stay in the studio.
The awareness you develop while performing a Roll Up, a Frog, or a Single Leg Circle doesn't disappear when the workout ends.
It follows you when you stand up from a chair.
When you climb stairs.
When you reach overhead.
When you carry groceries.
When you bend down to pick something up from the floor.
Little by little, you begin to understand your own body better.
Today, I still answer questions about muscles.
They are often the beginning of a very good conversation.
But I also know they are rarely the most important question.
Because Pilates isn't really about learning which muscle should work.
It's about learning how your whole body can work together more efficiently.
Perhaps that's why Pilates has stood the test of time.
It doesn't just change how you exercise. It changes how you understand your own body.

And once you begin understanding your body, you improve the way you move for the rest of your life. 


To Your Health!
Joanna

 

 

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